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    HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Hi guys i know its really the place to go, but i dont know what to do.
    Me and my ex girlfriend broke up after 4 years when i found out she was seeing someone else. Earlier this year we went holiday to egypt which she paid for.
    Prior to this I owed her some money which I used for my car.
    So i took a loan out to pay her back so we were straight. She then used this money book egpyt. She never mentioned paying her back but told me to bring the spending money.

    Now that the relationship has ended she is asking for half the money saying I now 'owe it her'.

    What can she do to me for the sake of a couple hundred ££?
    I feel that shuldnt have topay the cheating cow anyway, but thats just my emotions. What would your head say?

    She even had the cheek to tell me to sell my 5!! :O (thats just not happening)
    Please help guys.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Glad you're not selling the 5 mate

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Yeh its defo not goin mate.
    Just need some sound advice some one must have gone through similar circumstances?

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    You got a house, share a flat or live with her?

    You got kids with her?

    If the answer to both is no then get your empty bothered bag out, have a rummage around it in & then give her the old

    Tell her it's your compensation for the heartache she's caused by cheating on you!!!

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Punch her in the c**t and ask her how it feels.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Tim, Tim, Tim.. Full of good advice

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    As Big Steve says if you have no ties to 1 another kids, mortgage etc.. I would -

    Tell her to go **** herself, you didn't steal the money, there is no contract between you both saying you'd pay 1/2 the money, and she invited you on the holiday and only asked that you bring the spending money.

    She can **** right off matey courts won't be interested so don't worry.
    Last edited by James5; 09-10-2008 at 15:32.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    I might be a girl, but I agree with Tim. Kick her good and hard up the chuff!

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    As above. Tell her to do one.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mart View Post
    As above. Tell her to do one.

    ...After you inform her you've got c**k-rot ad have given her some little bacterial friends to keep her company.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    haha cheers guys iv been down for a while about it all. im only 21 have no ties live with mum no kids etc etc.

    So she couldnt take me court or any stuff like that?
    too young for all the stresses of the world! lol

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    she had no proof or written agreement so dont worry about court......

    she has cheated so should , by rights go and jump off a cliff....


    I would tell her to go swim in a croc infested river...I'd even pay for the one way ticket....

    like heather mills,she hasnt got a leg to stand on

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Court? For this type of nonsense? No chance. Judge Judy is only in America.

    She has no claim lad.

    On the other side of the coin, if this is the ONLY thing she possibly has over you, and you're able to pay, it might be worth doing it to be rid of her emtionally, and importantly to ensure your car isn't attacked in the night. Let's face it, if she's as she sounds, it's something that could happen.

    If your car is safe I'd say tell her to stuff it.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Cheers paul.
    Glad of that. Im just goin to ignor the hag now.
    If anything else comes of this I will let the club know maybe we could go around to her house with the sideys! showing some RTOC love!

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Just ignore all contact with her. Whether it be face to face or telephone.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Trevhib View Post
    Court? For this type of nonsense? No chance. Judge Judy is only in America.

    She has no claim lad.

    On the other side of the coin, if this is the ONLY thing she possibly has over you, and you're able to pay, it might be worth doing it to be rid of her emtionally, and importantly to ensure your car isn't attacked in the night. Let's face it, if she's as she sounds, it's something that could happen.

    If your car is safe I'd say tell her to stuff it.

    My car is tucked away in the garage in pieces!

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    15 posts for the sake of £200Just pay her and get her out off your life mate or it will cost you in the long run.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    New poster! (less than 10 posts)

    There's nothing she can really do legally but like someone said there's always the other, for the sake of a quiet life a couple of hundred quid seems small beer. Do it then kick her up the chuff (nice,not heard that for ages) and get on with your life.

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    The last thing I would do is give money to my ex! I'm bad enough trying to pay my missus as it is!

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Adam 005 View Post
    15 posts for the sake of £200Just pay her and get her out off your life mate or it will cost you in the long run.
    £13.33 a post doesn't seem too bad?

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Tim View Post
    Punch her in the c**t and ask her how it feels.
    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahah
    hahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! I just read that pissing myself at work, sorry to hi-jack your thread

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Quote Originally Posted by g10far View Post
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    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahah
    hahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! I just read that pissing myself at work, sorry to hi-jack your thread
    lol quality! I have had to contain it aswel!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Steve - Raider View Post
    £13.33 a post doesn't seem too bad?
    Should have gone to Adam 005, he's the cheapest in the UK

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    Quote Originally Posted by The new Bill J View Post
    Should have gone to Adam 005, he's the cheapest in the UK
    you just had too......

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    tell her bollox mate!!!! she cheated..... i would hide the 5 somewhere though, just incase she takes a key 2 it or worse ha` ha`

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    be nice to her....remember the good times....ask her for a shag for old times sake..... stick your cock up her fcuking arse and ram the fcuk out of it...that'll teach her.....the end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blick View Post
    tell her bollox mate!!!!

    She's got bollox?

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    you could pay her back so she'll shut up...... but i'd say you took the spending money so thats your contribution pain. done! cheating tw*t

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    Re: HELP PLEASE!!! Need your advice.

    Once again lads/ladies cheers!
    The money I was goin to give her will now go on my lovely 5 having a full exhaust system I decided last night. Its rather patched up.
    Im sure there must be a pun somewhere in there! lol

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    Tell her to fook off and DO 1!!!!!!!!!! scheming little mofo..............

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    if anyone to told me to sell my 5 i have them shoot down in days no bull**** im not telling you shoot her down but that may be a gd idea lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Tim View Post
    Punch her in the c**t and ask her how it feels.

    as dawno would say, just nealy spat my food all over the laptop`

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    Quote Originally Posted by g10far View Post
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    hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahahahahahahahah
    hahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! I just read that pissing myself at work, sorry to hi-jack your thread
    can understand, just logged on and read that, jesus i laughed

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    Quote Originally Posted by The new Bill J View Post
    Should have gone to Adam 005, he's the cheapest in the UK


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    as mr brose would say shes a c**t gimme the number i will forward it on to him she will never talk to u again m8

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    drag the scag on to Jeremy Kyle. The title could be "she cheated and wants me to sell my pride and joy, do I kick her in the **** or worry about giving her £200"

    LOL tell her to do one mate..........

    sounds to me that if you worrying about this issue, this much, your a much better person than she is............

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    Jog on BITCH.......god im hard

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